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Sexuality
and the Emotions
A good long-term relationship with a pure Aquarian is both stable
and worthwhile - but not altogether easy to achieve. The Aquarian
is usually happy if living alone, making his/her emotional forays
when he/she wishes to do so and avoiding the restrictions, however
pleasant, which are imposed by permanent relationships. When he/she
does enter into longer-term relationships it is essential that there
should be no feeling of being trapped, of being compelled to conform
to convention and the pressures of family life. Provided that the
Aquarian retains a sense of freedom, he/she makes an excellent partner
for anyone who can cope with a certain amount of unpredictability
and impracticality. An Aquarian is more likely to be concerned with
the problems of the Bolivian tin mining industry than with digging
the garden or unblocking the kitchen sink.
General
Character
Most people take immediately to pure Aquarians. They may find their
ideas a little too idealistic and impractical, but the personalities
are so likeable, the approaches so friendly, that they cannot look
upon them as other than thoroughly nice people. And yet, somehow
or other, it is difficult to feel close to an Aquarian. However
friendly the Aquarian may be - and Aquarians are almost invariably
amicable - an impression of distance, of a barrier which cannot
quite be demolished, always remains. The barrier is a very real
one. Aquarians are never in quite the same world as the rest of
us, for at least parts of their minds are always withdrawn from
the reality around them and living in the world of their ideals.
None of us sees the world exactly as it is-we all view the reality
that surrounds us through the distorted lenses of our prejudices
and misconceptions - but the pure Aquarian is more subject to defects
of intellectual vision than anyone else.
All
too often the Aquarian sees the world as he/she would wish it to
be, with everyone concerned about each other's welfare and anxious
to do good. This sometimes leads to disillusion and a conviction
that wickedness is abroad in the world- the Aquarian is genuinely
incapable of understanding the ruthless ambition of Aries and Scorpio
or the financially prudent ways of Capricorn. The disillusioned
Aquarian can be a very dangerous individual - the terrorist who
tries to bomb the world into virtue, the cynic who feels that good
is inevitably doomed to defeat. If, however, the Aquarian can use
his/her very considerable intellectual abilities to apprehend the
world as it is, rather than as it might be, he/she can be a tremendous
force for good - a reformer of things great and small, a person
who transforms others' ways of looking at things. The pure Aquarian,
whether he/she operates in only a small field of activities or in
the greater world of politics and economics, is never an easy friend.
But he/she can be a valued and very worthwhile one.
Life-Style
Aquarians are not the people to do things in the way they have always
been done, to be satisfied with tried and trusted methods. Tell
an Aquarian that something has been done in such-and-such a way
since 1742 and that no one has ever complained about it before,
and he/she will immediately start pointing out the shortcomings
of the system.
This
can be tiresome. Even more tiresomely the Aquarian will suggest
a new system which, to the astonishment of all, often turns out
to be an improvement on the old one if it is actually tried out.
In fact it very rarely is tried out, which causes the Aquarian frustration
and annoyance. To avoid this unhappiness it is essential that the
Aquarian should seek his/her living in a field of activity which
is open to new ideas and innovation. Radical administrations, both
local and national, are always filled with pure Aquarians busily
engaged in efforts to transform the lives of others for the better.
Other fields in which Aquarians excel in dude social and charitable
work, town planning, psychotherapy, economics, sociology, and anything
else in which they feel they are making the world either a better
place to live in or, as a cynical Capricoian might say, making a
tiresome nuisance of themselves.
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