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Summary:-
The psychological nature of the pure Cancerian is rather like the
physical nature of the crab and other crustaceans: a hard outer
shell conceals an interior that is soft and vulnerable to injury.
.To outsiders Cancerians present a hard appearance, giving the impression
that they are rough and unsympathetic; to those who know them well
they are gentle and compassionate. A sea crab is totally attached
to its home, in the most literal way, and the pure Cancerian is,
in metaphorical terms, equally attached to his/her home - his/her
life is centred on partners, parents, children and their surroundings.
A Cancerian is a loyal and devoted friend, an even more devoted
parent or child, and one who can be relied upon in all circumstances
- Cancerians would rather betray themselves than those who are close
to them. As they are themselves so loyal, Cancerians are badly wounded
if
others are disloyal to them. Their reaction is almost always to
withdraw, like a crab into its shell, rather than to attempt to
revenge themselves on those who have hurt them. Cancerian individuals
include and have included the poet Byron, the writer and artist
Jean Cocteau, the painter
Chagall, the movie star Gina Lollobrigida, and that extraordinary
novelist and confidence trickster 'Baron Corvo'.
Sexuality and the Emotions:-
Beneath an outward aspect which suggests coolness to the point of
frigidity, Cancerian men and women are often highly sexed. "The
Cancerian type was attributed to the Element of Water by the astrologers
of old, but as far as the emotions are concerned the Water of the
pure Cancerian is that which erupts from volcanic depths rather
than that which is found in ice-cold mountain lakes. The strong
physical urges of at least some Cancerians are modified by their
attachment to the home and those they know well. In a sense Cancerians
never leave their parents: the female Cancerian will seek a lover
who is also a father figure; the male will rarely value a partner
who does not have some maternal qualities. On the whole Cancerians
make good long-term relationships. These, however, are sometimes
marred by an emotional moodiness which can be trying to those who
have to cope with it day by day. Cancerians tend to swing between
extremes of attraction and repulsion, elation and depression, optimism
and pessimism. Only someone who is prepared to accept such swings
of temperament should marry a Cancerian.
General Character:-
The first, and even the second, impression made by a Cancerian is
often an unfavourable one. He/she strikes others as ultralogical,
a person who does not fully appreciate the feelings and problems
of others, who adopts a sternly practical attitude lacking in sympathy
and empathy. Nothing could be more erroneous; whatever their outward
aspects, Cancerians are the kindest, most generous and most protective
of human beings.
They are also the most sensitive and are extremely easily hurt.
Cancerians respond very badly to criticism and such criticism rarely
has good results, for Cancerians do not respond to it by making
greater efforts in an attempt to do better but by running away from
the scene. However good
the motives of the critic, the Cancerian feels under attack and
goes into retreat, withdrawing into the crab-like shell which feels
familiar and utterly safe. Thus, for example, the Cancerian child
who is told that his painting is attractive but that his perspective
is defective will respond, not by concentrating on improving his/her
perspective, but by giving up painting in favour of metalwork. Similarly,
the adult Cancerian will retreat from anyone who does not enthusiastically
respond to a kindly action or an agreeable word. There is no doubt
that this causes more extrovert types to find considerable difficulty
in establishing good relationships with Cancerians. If they persist,
however, it is well worth the effort, for it would be hard to find
a more rewarding friend or associate than a Cancerian whose trust
has been won.
Life-Style:-
Home is the most important aspect of the pure Cancerian's life,
and if he/she is to be happy at work the workplace must acquire
some of the characteristics of home. That is to say, the Cancerian
must feel secure in his/her work and feel that workmates are all
part of some enormous family. Any type of enterprise which demands
the utmost loyalty from its staff and, in turn, endeavours to protect
them from the harshness of the outside world provides an admirable
work environment for the pure Cancerian -a university, an old-established
school or a traditional financial concern, for example. Nevertheless,
a Cancerian's work life must not be too humdrum: Cancerians are
often imaginative, in spite of their sometimes pedestrian outward
aspect, and they also tend to be shrewd and intelligent. Any successful
Cancerian career must provide some scope for these qualities. Provided
the home environment is right, Cancerians do not care whether that
home is in the depths of the countryside or the midst of the city.
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